Wednesday, April 4, 2012

You guys, I thought I would be a lot more technologically savvy but no. Please exuse this posts' lack of pictures. If you'd like to see the many, not varied because I only take photos of my baby pictures, then help yourself to my instagram feed at biancasidersolkiewicz. It's pretty cool.

Well, Ava had her follow up appointment on her walking. Her Dr. declared that she indeed had made progress but was concerned that Ava is very hesitant. She is. She only wants to walk with my hands and that means both of them. If I try to take one way, it's basically like releasing the crackin. (Raf and I have conceded that Ava is a ligit diva. But that's ok cause she gets it from her mama) But when Ava walked to grab the tags clipped on the doctor's pants, she enthusiasticaly said, oh if she wants to then she'll let go. Ya, those pediatricans catch on fast. So, after discussing forward facing carseats and how not to use one until 2 years AND 35lbs, she said that she wanted X-rays of Ava's hips just to make sure everything is working properly. So to radiology, we will go.

Can I just say how much we adore our little Avechen. I am so thankful for her. And this is how I see my daughter: genius. Seriously, she's brilliant. I am thinking about having her tested to see if Mensa will accept her. She would be the youngest member by far but with the most contribution. No, honestly. I want her to know that she's brilliant and can accomplish much more than her mom and dad combined. She knows how to hug. When she wraps her tiny arms up around my neck, I don't ever want to let go. See? Genius.

Things are good with the man and I but this week was harder than others. I don't know about you but marriage is no picknik. And if you do have the perfect relationship, then obviously your spouse is not a foreigner. I feel that a relationship needs constant attention and effort. If you are not willing to work on it, then don't get married. I'm lucky in the sense that I adore my husband. Next to my own self, he's my favorite person. Therefore, I don't like seeing him unhappy or stressed or feeling like I could be doing more for him. With that being said, partnerships are hard. We share everything. And sometimes one of us can do something idiotic that upsets the other one of us. I personally do not like relinquishing control and that is something I need to be consciencenious about and work on. But still, with all my faults and shortcomings, my husband is lucky. I did in fact give him the most beautiful daughter in the world.

6 comments:

  1. Marriage isn't a picnic? What? Just kidding, it's the hardest thing I've ever done in my liife next to natural childbirth. That shit was tough. I guess it's pretty rewarding though ;)

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    1. I misspelled picnic! How embarrassing. I take full responsibility and do not blame my iPhone for letting that mistake slide.

      We also had a baby soon into our relationship so sometimes l think we could have used more time to work out the kinks. But then again, probably not. That's what I get for marrying the stubborn kind.

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    2. Haha it's fine...I forget half of the time to spell-check before I post so I'm sure my stuff is ripe with typos.

      And I'm with you - I know that we definitely had kinks to work out but hey, it keeps things interesting, doesn't it? Mine is stubborn as hell too, drives me up the wall but also makes me love him more.

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  2. I think a lot of people in our generation feel like a marraige should just workout because you're in love, it shouldn't have to require work but it really does. And just because it requires work doesnt mean it isnt happy, it just means you're willing to fight for it and not just be lazy and let it fall apart. I love my husband with every fiber in me but we still have to work at it.

    p.s I agree, Ava is one of the prettiest babies ever. And I don't just toss around baby compliments! Her eyes are amazing!

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  3. Thank you, Shannon! That's sweet.

    And I agree that the whole concept of marriage can be lost on our generation. I don't want to say divorce is never a option but we would be going to a bunch of marriage counseling before!

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